Help Vs. Access – An ND led model for leadership and opportunities

Help Vs. Access – An ND led model for leadership and opportunities

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Help Vs. Access – An ND led model for leadership and opportunities

This article will introduce you (and other arts organisations that see themselves as “championing” or “helping” neurodivergent (or in their derogatory words, “neurodiverse”) artists and musicians vs what access actually means and a model I developed that ensures that Neurodivergent artists and musicians are at the fore of all decision making.

What does helping mean?

Helping requires a hierarchy.

“Help” in this sense is someone who has identified that they see a person as lower down on the scale than them who might be seen as rubbish, outsiders, the forgotten, the invisible, marginalised, or lesser than… othered…. who requires some kind of help in order to be more like them – coping, consistent, excelling, succeeding.

Often, they think that by making them visible instead of invisible solves the problem.

It doesn’t.

Why not?

Because that stance automatically sees the helped person as “lesser than” and incites inspiration porn.

Also, the “helper” has decided the “lesser than” person requires help.

Instead, “access” asks the person who is an outsider or is perceived as rubbish, the forgotten, the invisible etc how they would like to access a space, an environment, an opportunity. It’s more active and less passive.

For the purpose of this article I am going to name the “helped” person as Person B.

Access in this sense, asserts that Person B has skills and talent but requires tools to reduce their barriers so they can achieve.

The problem with organisations that state they champion disabled/neurodivergent artists and support them to show their art etc. is that that is really not enough.

Neurodivergent people do want their art to be seen yes, but their barriers involve much more than that.

They require access support to be able to network, to sell their work, to sustain their practice, to support them to lead on projects and discover their self worth. They need prompts and reminders.

They don’t need to be patronised and told “how to do this” – they know how to do it, they just don’t know how to present their ideas in a way that neurotypical/mainstream people can understand it.

They also burn out.

So this model is really quite simple. It is putting neurodivergent people or artists into leadership roles in the staff team.

It is about trusting neurodivergents to lead and to run projects and it is about giving them access support – so that when neurodivergent people have their own team of people to reduce their access barriers this means that they can now function, create, lead to the best of their ability or however they want to work as an artist.

Some neurodivergents might need a big team of people, others might just need an assistant. Some might need someone to help with writing all of their emails for them, and checking their emails. Others might require an Access Worker/assistant in all meetings to take notes, keep up with their diary and ensure that all team members are aware of decisions.

Once a neurodivergent artist identifies what access they need in the environment they’re in, that should be it. The organisation now has a duty to support them to sustain their practice, to continue to make work and show work, and support with forming partnerships. So the flow can continue.

Until this change happens in the arts, then organisations will continue with damaging narratives. And neurodivergent people will remain gagged.

Until the systems and structures change where neurodivergent people are seen as skilled individuals that require payment and a salary then the arts will continue to run these types of organisations that “look down” on the people they claim to be helping, instead of representing them properly and pushing for sales of their work, or ensuring they have support with funded opportunities.

Instead of taking a passive backseat and only seeking donations from wealthy organisations and rich donors, or arts funding etc. and then ticking a box that the neurodivergent artist was able to show their art.

Showing is not enough.

What must happen in order for neurodivergent artists to be successful in the arts is a type of scaffolding.

Use the funding to employ excellent PR and marketing individuals to ensure enough of the right people in the industry are invited (ie. collectors, and gallery curators or music producers and record labels etc) to these events to discover these artists.

Those are the kind of opportunities these artists are looking for – and if you can’t do that as an organisation then you have no business “helping” because it only further excludes neurodivergent artists. It raises their expectations. Showing art is not enough. Sustaining practice must be the goal.

How does putting neurodivergent artists on “show” exclude them? How does that work? Well, it wastes these artists time. They need support to sustain their practice and be paid… they have bills to pay, just like the rest of you.

What does access mean?

So how does access differ from help?

Access supports artists to sustain their practice and participate in an opportunity.

Access ensures the person remains autonomous, empowered and supported. They do not feel othered or lesser than.

You should be turning to that artist for insight, for advice or to make more work with them.

If you’re not doing that, then you’re not seeing them as equals. You’re seeing them as someone you’re helping as opposed to working with.

It needs to be a collaborative partnership.

You should be excited about working with them and want to ensure you can make even more work with them because the work they make is original, exciting and different.

What if you can’t “Mask” as an autistic woman?

What if you can’t “Mask” as an autistic woman?

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What if you can’t “Mask” as an autistic woman?

There’s a problem.

Articles everywhere are saying autistic women are overlooked because they can “mask.”

They say that women had no idea they were autistic and feel that although they felt different they could get on like everyone else. Then realised that they could do so because they were masking.

Why this narrative is problematic.

Because many many many autistic women – and it goes for many other neurodivergent women under this umbrella of neurodivergence too can’t mask.

Masking assumes that ND women were able to mask and cope and get on with it.

But this is not true for thousands of other autistic and Neurodivergent women who really struggled in school, who were horrifically bullied in school by teachers and pupils alike, in all walks of life, at different employment environments and spaces. at university and all sorts.

Quitting a job you really enjoy because you can’t cope with some tasks that are not necessarily in your job role but are expectations set upon you by neurotypical people.

Being fired or pushed out of a job because although you are meeting all your targets and are probably excelling at your role but… your autistic traits or neurodivergence is causing problems for the neurotypical company or organisation (and usually it’s often only one person there who has taken offence to you) but they experience you as problematic, difficult, wrong, weird, strange.

What would be ABSOLUTELY FINE if it were a man – neurotypical or not – it’s not when you’re a neurodivergent woman or/and autistic woman.

Sometimes just opening your mouth as an autistic women, or neurodivergent woman can cause huge issues. The words might be received completely wrong by other people and you’re shut down, excluded, deliberately misunderstood and then often accused of things that bear no resemblance to your values, thoughts and feelings and this can be traumatising and traumatic.

Why are these narratives harmful?

Because the medical industry wrongly assumes two camps – high functioning and low functioning (which is actually proven to be non-existent and wrong) but anyway – for the purpose of this example, parents who assume their children are low functioning are angry at the neurodiversity movement because they say that “high functioning” autistic people are not experiencing the same barriers that their children are. They perceive the so called (and damaging term) “high functioning” autistics with unease and say that they’re “not really autistic” but just because a so called plopped into the “high functioning camp” autistic woman is seen as “high functioning” – or independent which is probably the better word…

doesn’t mean they’re not suffering.

Just take a look at their medical history of suicide attempt(s), crises, severe chronic illnesses, relapses and often you’ll notice a pattern that they were never coping because they were never able to mask.

They were calling out for help countless of times…. and were not heard, not believed and not trusted.

Whilst the term “masking” might be very helpful for a lot of autistic women and neurodivergent women – and of course everyone should feel empowered to use the words they feel describes their life experience…. we must remember that not every autistic or neurodivergent woman can mask.

So if you’re working with autistic women or neurodivergent women artists….

Don’t assume they can “mask”

Not everyone can. You’ll see that with the way they’re treated by society, by individuals, by other people… colleagues, peers etc.

Their neurodivergent traits are mistaken for personality traits.

So many neurodivergent artists who cannot mask are told they are “unprofessional” and are blamed for their neurodivergent traits.